ArcaMax

Q: In most situations I'm a pretty confident guy. But the thought of having the "birds and bees" talk with my pre-teen son has me sweating bullets. Help?!

Jim: I think most guys relate. My sons are grown men now, but I remember I was pretty nervous when the time came for me to talk with my oldest, Trent, about sex. Human reproduction can be ...Read more

Q: Recently I've gone through a divorce that I didn't want. My ex has already moved on and there's no going back, so I'm starting to look forward myself. How soon is too soon to get married again after divorce?

Jim: There's no one-size-fits-all answer to "how soon is too soon." But since this is a question that our counselors at Focus on the ...Read more

Q: I'm a married mom, maintaining a household while working full-time. With everything required in each of those roles, how can I find quality time to spend with my children? It seems like there aren't enough hours in the day.

Jim: You might start by honestly asking yourself a few simple questions. Are you working to provide for basic needs, or...Read more

Q: Over the past couple of years I've been battling severe anxiety and depression. These feelings are bad enough, but I'm concerned that I'm making life difficult for my wife and kids. What should I do?

Jim: I'd say that your concern is actually a hopeful sign. Some people who suffer from depression withdraw so deeply into themselves that they'...Read more